Today, Shkumbin Pllana is a proud father to two boys and husband to “an amazing wife that I met here in Edmonton. This is an example of the beauty of Canada and what multiculturalism truly" he says. Before finding peace and love in Canada he was fleeing fleeing a deadly war by Serbia where ethnic tensions between Albanians and Serbians erupted in Kosovo just over 25 years ago.
“The emotional toll that it had on our family, witnessing the devastation of war firsthand was a harrowing experience that has left a lasting impact on us. The war robbed us of our sense of security and stability, but it also taught us the importance of unity and strength in the face of adversity” says Pllana.
For many Kosovo refugees, adapting to a new life while their children integrated quickly forging a new blended identity was a profound challenge many refugee families continue to face today. They held on fiercely to this identity—a response that feels entirely natural for those who have fled the brutality of ethnic cleansing “The biggest barrier that I have seen is the language and cultural barriers. The reason is that adjusting to a new language and culture is difficult, especially for the older generation. It is a daunting task trying to rebuild a life in a completely different part of the world, while not being able to understand the language, which in turn hinders their ability to find employment, access services and integrate into their new communities.” says Pllana.
Besides holding his two boys and admiring his wife and his new life, his favorite moment in Canada; his response makes Canada’s efforts worth it “The best memory that I recall is waking up the morning we arrived in Edmonton with my parents and sisters as we walked outside with a sense of peace and a new life ahead.” says Pllana.